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《花样少年少女》的“南学长”唐禹哲(阿哲)俘掳不少香港少女芳心,是少女们梦想的完美情人。现实中的阿哲是个对爱情很专一的人,他曾爱过一个令他有结婚冲动的女友,正值事业冲刺期仍不讳言渴望再拍拖,更会为女友公开恋情,自幼丧父险成边缘青年的他,心中最重要的女人会是谁?

憧憬新爱情生活

阿哲加入娱乐圈火速成为万人迷,Fans都想拥有像他这种男朋友。同样,与Fans年纪相若的阿哲也憧憬属于他的爱情生活,他直言不能不恋爱。“爱情对我来说就跟粮食一样,不能缺少,否则生命会很乏味,所以我很期待再拍拖,但爱情是要好好经营的,要两个人一起去保护才是爱。”语气带着经历失恋后的沧桑;然后他提起高中一段刻骨铭心的旧情。对象是一位开朗、率直不造作又孝顺的女孩。“我们交往了两年多,我对这段情真的很投入,投入到想要结婚的程度。可是后来她要出去念书,我们的感情最后也就转淡了。”


爱情靠同心经营

深爱对方至认定终身的地步,可想而知这位旧爱对阿哲的影响有多大,分手当然可惜,但阿哲回想起来却自觉爱得不成熟。“往后我对爱情会更小心,更懂得经营,两个人一起一定要维持着爱的感觉,我也要有能力去照顾对方才行,我觉得以前自己太容易吃醋,不够体谅对方。”懂得不再重复犯错,现在的阿哲岂非已变成完美情人?“但我没时间陪女朋友,这就不算完美了,而且我又不能当众跟她牵手,虽然这只是很表面,但女孩子都会想要男朋友牵着她。”因为体谅到女人的心情,阿哲不敢胡乱开始恋爱,但他也坦承一直忙工作也会寂寞,当放假孤独一人的时候,他还是会渴望恋爱的感觉。


为女友制造浪漫

台湾艺人开始大方公开恋情,若阿哲现在遇到真命女友,他又会否公开?“我觉得应该尊重女孩子,公开关系是一种尊重。虽然我是很被动、不敢表白追求的人,但若遇上喜欢的人,我也会不顾时机的去接近她。”阿哲这番话令人感觉他是忠于爱情的人,自称不敢主动追女孩子的他,却自认是浪漫男友。“虽然我不是会送100枝玫瑰去追求女友的人,但交往之后就会发现我在生活细节上很浪漫,会为女友制造突如其来的甜蜜惊喜。”


从叛逆到孝顺 疼妈妈多过女友

众所周知阿哲很孝顺相依为命的母亲,他坦言即使将来有女友,相信还是会偏心母亲多点,但他不担心会成为女友与母亲之间的夹心人,他笑言与母亲像两兄妹,相信母亲与他的未来女友也很合得来。“我觉得妈妈比较像我妹妹,有时候反过来要我管她。”赞他难得如此孝顺母亲,他却显得惭愧,自责以前不乖让母亲担心,当谈到父亲早已离世,他一度强忍泪水。

“爸爸在我念小六那年过世,12岁的我对爸爸的离开是要懂但又不懂的心情,但自从他走后,对我在学校和心态上都很大影响,我变得很反叛,令妈妈很担心,直到升高中后,我才真正改变自己。”阿哲到长大后才体会母亲一直为他牺牲很多,所以决定今后要让她幸福。“妈妈对我从无要求,只单纯希望我健康、快乐,所以我很希望自己能让她生活无忧无虑。”


來源: Sina Ent
Source: Sina Ent

Senior Nan from Hana Kimi (portrayed by Danson Tang) captured many Hong Kong girls’ hearts & is the perfect lover in their eyes. In real life, Danson is very faithful in matters of the heart. He once dated a girl & even thought of marriage when he was with her. Currently, his main focus is on his career but he hopes to date again & will even admit to the relationship if he has a girlfriend. Losing his dad at a tender age, one wonders who is the most important woman in his life?

Danson rose to fame at a fast rate after entering the entertainment circle & many fans wish to have a boyfriend like him. Similarly, Danson is also hoping to find the love of his life. He admitted that he’s someone who cannot do without love.

He said: “To me, love & food are the same; it’s indispensable, otherwise life will be very boring. I’m looking forward to dating again. A relationship needs to be maintained & it takes both parties to clap."

He revealed one of his past relationships during his high school days. She is a cheerful, frank & filial girl. “We dated for about 2 years & I’m so committed in this relationship to the extent that I had the impulse to get married. But because she had to go overseas to study, our relationship was affected & it ended.”

Loving the other party to the extent of wanting to spend the rest of his life with her, from that, we can imagine the impact this past relationship had on Danson. Breaking up might be a pity but thinking back, Danson felt that he wasn’t mature enough at that point of time. “I’ll be more careful with matters of the heart in future & will know how to manage the relationship better. When two people are together, they must maintain the feeling of love. On the other hand, I must also have the ability to take care of the other party. I feel that I get jealous easily & is not understanding enough in the past.”

Learning & knowing not to repeat past mistakes, has Danson become the perfect lover? “I do not have the time to accompany my girlfriend & with this point alone, I’m not perfect. Also, I can’t hold her hand in public. Although this is on the surface, but all girls wish their boyfriends to hold her when they are out.” Danson do not dare to start a relationship easily as he understands how girls feel. He admitted that even though he’s busy with work, he feels lonely at times too. And during off days & he’s alone, the more he hope to have the feeling of being in love.

Many Taiwan celebrities are getting more open in admitting their relationships. If one day, Danson found his ideal girlfriend, will he admit publicly? “To me, I think I ought to respect a girl & being open & admitting to the relationship is a form of respect. Although I’m very passive & is one who won’t dare to openly declare that I’m pursuing her but if I meet someone I really like, I’ll find opportunities to get close to her.” Danson claims that he’s a romantic boyfriend even though he’s one who does not dare to take the initiative in pursuing girls. “Although I’m not those type of guys who’ll give 100 stalks of roses to woo a girl, but when I’m in a relationship, the other party will realize that I’m very romantic & I will create surprises for my girlfriend.”

As we all know, Danson is very filial to his mum. He mentioned that even if he has a girlfriend in future, he believe that he’ll side his mum more. He’s not worried that he’ll be sandwiched between his mum & his girlfriend. He said (with a smile):”My mum & I are like siblings more than mother & son! I believe that my future girlfriend & my mum will get along well. I think my mum is more like my little sister. Sometimes, I’m quite strict with her.” When praised that he’s very filial to his mum, he felt ashamed & blames himself for being rebellious when he’s young & making his mum worried. When talking about his deceased father, he tried hard to fight back his tears.

“My father passed away when I’m in primary 6. I was only 12 years old when it happened & my feelings then was kind of complicated. His passing away left a great impact on my studies & mentality. I became very rebellious & made my mum worried. It’s only after I entered high school that I start to change.” Danson realized that his mum had sacrificed a lot only after he entered adulthood & he vowed to give her happiness thereafter. “My mum did not expect a lot from me, she only wish for me to have good health & happiness. I hope to give her the best & let her lead a carefree life.”



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